I used to have the same problem, when i was 15 had my first girlfriend, we talked on msn but we both were to shy to talk at school. after a couple of weeks we started hanging out after school it was alot easier for both of us to talk and just relax. and now, 4.5 years later we are still together

I once met a girl over the internet, we chatted for ages and got on really well... Then we met up and she looked like Davey Havok



Needless to say THAT didn't last long.

But Nathan (if that is your real name), take advice from Big Willy 'Girls ain't nothin' but trouble!'

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0FFrCZNNCeU[/youtube]

Wurd!

I feel like I have to reply to this, because... well I can relate to it.

I used to have a girlfriend I knew via MSN, and she lived 200km away. That meant we didn't see eachother much (about every two weeks) but we talked a lot on MSN and that was always fun. And when we did see eachother it was quite alright, at least in the beginning when it was all fresh and new.

But that didn't really last, and at some point we had run out of 'light' topics to discuss (it was usually music and video games) and we found out we had failed to build a personal relationship.

What I'm trying to say, is.... Poor me! Pity me!!! Feel sorry for me!!!!
But also: it just doesn't work. You need that personal touch if you want it to last. Even though she might think you're sweet and cute, that just doesn't do it in the end.

I've had a friend try such a relationship with someone from Norway. I warned them, but they insisted they could get it right. Until she came over for a couple of days, and a week later it was over between the two of them. And I noticed that many of my friends who do have sane relationships, hardly ever talk to their girlfriends on MSN or anything. I'm noticing a trend here

So my advice is, just hang out together. You'll get past the awkwardnes soon enough, and then you'll be fine. Or maybe you'll find out that you're not so fine together.
Don't rely on MSN or the phone or whatever, because with that people are different or can appear different from what they really are.

either way....a 6pack before any encounter will have you talking till her ears bleed....

Oh yes, that will help. My mouth gets a mind of its own when I've been drinking.
He's only 14 though


Oh and Dunkelheits advice seems sensible as well.



This must be my longest post ever

Overall, good advice from everyone, aside from promoting sex and drinking to a 14 year old.

hey, he'd hump and get drunk even without our hearty healthy counsel

Don't rely on MSN or the phone or whatever, because with that people are different or can appear different from what they really are.

Yeah, I think anyone that meets someone over the internet should keep that in mind.

PDA? Who the fuck uses PDAs?

If you weren't joking, I believe PDA in this case = Public Display of Affection.

Oh, that PDA.

And yeah, she's been grounded for some silly reason, so that means she has no cell phone or internet. This is sort of a blessing is disguise. I spent all of my school day with her, and I'm getting better. Guess I have too

Internet and long distance relationships never last, so I'm not sure what you're happy about.

Stick it in her pooper.

Or Shit in her cereal.

Do you miss the Dream Theater forum still?

Stick it in her pooper.

Or Shit in her cereal.

Do you miss the Dream Theater forum still?

SHUT THE FUCK UP YES I DO

LOL!

Should I ask Rai (Weymolith) about you, Nathan? I just happen to know him...

That depends, will what he says influence your actions regarding my existence on this forum? Is the answer is yes, don't ask him.

Whut? DT forum people are here? Funny, I liked to lurk on it years ago, good read.

As for general decadence advice for Nathan I agree, he should start binge drinking, having rich social life and showing lots of scandalous behaviour as early as possible. I didn't and now I'm sad, old and alone.

edit: damn, Ponglish.

[Blazingmonga]

Oh Nathan, you don't have a problem...you are just young! When you are young, new things are intimidating at first. Once you get used to them though they become normal.

It is perfectly normal to find it a bit difficult talking to girls when you are young. I can remember being unable to stop blushing when talking to any girl as I was so nervous!

Now though, all I do is whip out my mango and all the girls want to talk to me.

cant talk as in shyness? afraid she'll laugh at you or some shit?

To be honest with you, I fear nothing as much as girls laughing when I don't know what they're laughing for.

By the way could somebody explain what the hell is this?

Stick it in her pooper.

Or Shit in her cereal.

Do you miss the Dream Theater forum still?